1. Stop comparing:
Do not trade your joy by comparing yourself with anyone because comparison is always a thief of joy. You are not doing justice to your life if you always compare your life with someone else.
2. Accept and see things the way it is:
When challenging situations come, understand that you can’t undo them. So instead of cribbing about it, think about how can you do better next time.
Understand that when you are born a human, it is always good to experience all kinds of emotions as a human being without being enslaved by them. Be grateful when you succeed, and appreciate the pain when you are faced with challenges but don’t allow yourself to become a slave of your emotions.
3. Be inspired not get jealous.
Wish others good the same way you wish good for yourself
Be inspired when someone does good rather than getting jealous because by being jealous you are poisoning yourself wasting your emotions and energy and slowing down your progress. Some of you may feel attacked and find it a hard pill to swallow but being proud and happy just because you are doing better than others is a sickness. There is a difference between celebrating yourself because you do it better than you were before and celebrating because you have that feeling that everyone is below you.
If you are brought up in an environment where you are always compared with someone who is doing better than you, it is your responsibility to unlearn and break that pattern and acknowledge that you are uniquely designed and it’s your birthright to own it. So, work upon yourself to tap into that potential.
4. Stop overthinking:
You don’t have to take the baggage of the whole Universe in your head. Do not mess up your head by thinking about what has happened or may happen. My maternal grandmother always used to say, “why to worry before it happens?” Be playful, and don’t get too serious all the time otherwise you’ll lose out on so many good things if you are way too serious about everything. Be a child when you are with a child. There is abundant joy and excitement there.
We can learn to be curious without agenda, and joyful without judgment from children if we have forgotten to be one as we grow up.
5. Develop intention and purpose:
Have your intentions right and serve others so others can also experience your Fragrance. Be intentional about what you want to create and have a purpose for how you want to live. I am happiest when someone comes back or writes to me saying Thank you for making my day, thank you for helping me a better person, Thank you for starting that fire to work upon myself, for helping me succeed, and for supporting me throughout my journey. You will know what true joy is when you know someone‘s life is better because you exist.
6. Practice some form of spirituality: That’s how you connect with the source of creation, to your higher purpose. Spirituality doesn’t necessarily mean making a deal with God to give you this or that. It means being able to sit still, trust the process and have devotion in your heart. Whatever has to happen will happen. Trust the creator. For instance, I have learned to face challenging situations with trust and devotion in my heart thinking that my sufferings are fast-forwarded so I don’t have to suffer for lifetimes to come. So have some positive enforcement when faced with challenges.
Attract and vibrate Abundance. I am your sister in your journey. You are Grace. You are a possibility!